After a breakup, it's natural to endure a period of emotional pain and upheaval.
 
What are you likely up to in such difficult times? Odds are, apart from grappling with sadness, you might be obsessively checking your ex's social media activity, trying to decipher any lingering feelings they might have for you. This sense of longing is genuinely heart-wrenching.
 
Post-breakup, it's crucial to pause and ponder whether your current energy is fit for sustaining the relationship. Consulting an advisor for a reading can be an enlightening process. Moreover, self-reflection on whether your time together recently had been harmonious or fraught with tension can be revealing. Just as plants need the right environment to thrive, a relationship does too. If altercations have been frequent, it might be a sign that your personal energy fields are in disarray, and a break could help in decluttering and recalibrating your energies.

Strategies to clear your energy for a fresh start and potentially meeting someone new:

1. Start Anew: Consider giving back your ex's items or discarding them to symbolically cut energy cords that might be preventing you from moving forward. This act can help you break free from the pull of fluctuating energies and the complexity of your past relationship. A fresh set of personal items like underwear might also serve as a metaphor for starting a new chapter.

2. Embrace Solitude: Refrain from contacting them or seeking out information that keeps you emotionally bound to the past relationship. It's a time to stand independently, allowing yourself to heal from within, with the potential of allowing your ex to initiate contact if that's meant to be.

3. Give Yourself a Break: Plan a short getaway to enjoy some personal time and promote self-healing. While opening up to meeting someone new is exciting, rushing into a new relationship is not advisable. Give your emotional state enough time to recover, so when you are ready, your energy will be primed for the possibility of a new beginning.

Remember to incorporate supportive friends, uplifting activities, and self-care into your routine as these can help cleanse your aura and lead you to a brighter, more optimistic path.