Are They Emotionally Unavailable—Or Just Not Your Soul Match?

“They say they care, but they don’t open up.”
  “They’re hot and cold, and I never know where I stand.”
  “I feel something real, but they keep pulling away.”
 

If you’ve ever been in this space, you’re not alone—and you’re not crazy.
 

You might be trying to build love with someone whose heart is still locked behind a door you don’t have the key for. Or worse—someone who’s not emotionally available, but who gives just enough to keep you hoping they might change.
 
 

🧠 Emotional Availability Isn’t About Words—It’s About Safety

Someone can say “I love you” and still not be available for a real, present, grounded relationship. Emotional availability means:
  • They can show up, not just speak up
  • They make space for your feelings, not avoid them
  • They have the capacity to grow with you, not just lean on you
 
  If they vanish when things get close, joke about feelings, or always blame their past for why they can’t commit—you’re likely not dealing with timing, you’re dealing with misalignment.
 
 

🌌 So… Why Do You Feel So Connected?

That’s the soul trap, right? It feels intense. You dream about them. You feel their energy. You know there’s something real here.
 

And you’re probably right.
 

But not every soul connection is meant to be long-term or healthy. Some are here to open wounds that need healing, to mirror your own self-worth journey, or to teach you how to choose you.
 

That doesn’t mean they’re evil. It means they may not be your match—not because you’re not good enough, but because you’re not in the same energetic place.
 
 

🧿 Here’s the Real Question:

Can they meet you where you are emotionally, spiritually, and energetically?
 

If not, the universe might be showing you it’s time to release the fantasy so you can make room for a connection that doesn’t leave you guessing.
 
 

✨ Want to Know What This Connection Really Is?

  In my readings, I tune into soul contracts and emotional timelines—so we don’t just ask “do they love me?” We ask:
  • Why did this person come into your life?
• Are they capable of love, or just comfort? • Are they part of your healing—or your future?

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  You don’t have to sit in confusion any longer. 💜