In everyone's emotional journey, the topic of "exes" can be quite troubling, considering they were once individuals we genuinely and wholeheartedly cared for—individuals with whom we shared beautiful memories.
 
For some, a breakup signifies a definitive end to a relationship, while for others, it can become a solo performance of sorts.
 
Indeed, the topic of exes is both weighty and irresistibly compelling.
 
Today, this series aims to delve into the intriguing question of how "exes" exist in the minds of each of the twelve zodiac signs. Do you still have a chance?
 
 
The Former Flame in the Mind of an Aries
 

• Aries, while known for their bold and straightforward approach to love, are also courageous in facing their past relationships.
  Regardless of who initiated the breakup, Aries doesn't linger too long on it, adopting a simple stance towards exes—just friends. After a split, Aries swiftly accepts the reality of the relationship's incompatibility. They may reminisce about the good times and acknowledge their feelings, but they won't dwell or hesitate. They are open to maintaining contact with an ex, recognizing the bond they once shared, but the idea of starting afresh is unlikely. Aries doesn't enjoy looking back; they prefer to move forward.  
   

Do They Want Reconciliation
 

• If YES: They will show vulnerability.
   
  They may reach out to you using excuses like "Your red scarf is still at my place" to confidently establish contact with you. These methods and questions allow them to reconnect without hesitation. Once in touch, they will begin reminiscing about the past, trying to evoke shared emotions. Without explicitly stating their intentions, they will subtly hint at their meaning, as Aries are very concerned about saving face. However, if you reject this contact, the Aries will completely back off. In such scenarios, they understand that cutting ties decisively is the best choice for themselves.
     
• If NO: They will clearly reject it.
   
  Aries individuals in relationships are not ones to mince words or beat around the bush. They dislike wasting their own time as well as that of others. If they believe that a relationship has no future, they will be direct and clear in conveying their thoughts to the other person. They won't lead someone on or exhibit indecisiveness. Therefore, if an Aries firmly rejects you, it almost certainly signifies that they have no intention of reconciling. Continuing to pursue them at this point will only make them more resolute in cutting ties completely. In the end, maintaining even a friendship might become challenging for them.  
   

How to Win Back an Aries?
 

• Rule NO.1: Aries responds better to gentleness than to forcefulness.
   
  Aries' anger may flare up quickly and dissipate just as fast, but they are also adamant about not admitting defeat. Getting them to apologize or admit fault is nearly impossible. Therefore, if you wish to win back an Aries, your approach must not be forceful; otherwise, to them, it will come across as a challenge.
   
• Rule NO.2: Calm Communication, Confronting the Issue.
   
  Aries enjoys laying out issues on the table for discussion and resolution. If possible, they will communicate and work through things with you. However, if this approach doesn't work, Aries will be clear and upfront in letting you know.
   
• Rule NO.3: Being attentive and caring but not overly clingy.
   
  If you can consistently offer him warmth or thoughtful help at the right times, he is more likely to reminisce about your past kindness towards him. If an Aries realizes that you still harbor feelings for them, they may begin to soften. This is when reconciliation becomes more likely. However, it's crucial to maintain the right level of care. Crossing the line into clinginess and control can potentially lead to being "blacklisted" in the end.
   
   

Dating an Aries always evokes a mixture of "love and pain," leaving you both captivated and helpless at the same time. Hopefully, everyone can gain something positive and grow from their relationships. The most important lesson is to learn how to hold on when necessary and let go when needed.
 
 
Today's sharing comes to an end here. Let me know which zodiac sign you'd like to explore next time in the comments. See you in the next session, bye bye!