A lovers candle is not a spell but rather an energy work that is meant to align you and your lover as one. It is meant to sweep away the negative energy doubt and uncertainty that each of you or one of you may be facing all the while pulling forward the positivity the strength and the nourishment that is needed in the relationship. It is there to break away boundaries to allow one another to fully experience each other to the fullest potential. I would use both names and date of birth‘s of the two people involved as well as a picture. Reuniting lovers energies.